Do you Have Real Friends?

Have you ever been friends with someone and wondered if they were really a trustworthy friend? Or wonder if they may be talking behind your back? I am sure we all have had these experiences as there are many people in this world who are deceitful. It can often be hard to recognize whether someone you are friends with is acting two faced towards you. These types of people are likely insecure and usually have no real friends at all. There are many ways to spot whether someone is being a false friend toward you. I am writing this post to share some signs to look out for when considering who to become friends with. First, if your friend is acting different around others than they are around you, then they are often not truly your friend. A trustworthy friend would not be afraid to admit they are friends with you, they would be proud to be friends with you. Secondly, if they are negatively talking about you behind your back, they are definitely not your friend. A genuine friend would not attempt to make you seem like a bad person. Additionally, if a friend of yours is constantly expecting things from you, and continuously wants something from you such as money, food, free items. Another sign to look out for is immaturity. If a friend Is always acting out during a disagreement, or always finding ways to pick a fight, if your friend was genuinely interested in you as a person, they would be willing to talk things out in a mature matter. Lastly, friends who cancel plans you had because something or someone “better” came up, they often only spend time with you when their usual friends are busy, or only when it is a convenient time for them. A dependable friend would put your plans first, and would not ditch you for other plans than sound more interesting. Although there are many people who are undependable, having true friends who are kind to you and to others is unbeatable. Trusting your instincts plays an important role in considering who to become friends with. Always remember to watch out for the many signs and to trust your true impression on people.

Marissa Morton